The perks of living a D/s dynamic 24/7
Most people would love to get whatever they want exactly when they want it. Except for submissives. They can be considered the real angels of the kink community because no one better than them knows what it means to put their needs second, and prioritize whatever their domme/dom desires first. However, if there’s something that both dommes and submissives can agree on is that living by their innate natures, be it dominance or submission, can be incredibly fulfilling. So why not live it everyday?
I used to believe that a D/s dynamic only takes place behind closed doors and in very intimate settings. I thought you had to plan out a session for that kind of power exchange to happen. Little did I know that some of the most interesting and excitingly challenging parts of a D/s dynamic can take place in the most usual, often vanilla, aspects of our daily lives. Be it during breakfast, or while doing chores in the house or running errands in the city. Every opportunity can present itself as the perfect moment for you to unleash your dominance and for your submissive to unravel their marvelous ability to serve you.
When you allow yourself to bring your D/s dynamic into your daily life, you’re essentially leveling up. This is, of course, my perspective but I strongly stand by it. My life has incredibly improved as soon as I started to make my submissive do gestures and tasks for me both in private and in public. It can include vanilla/less noticeable gestures such as letting them open the door of a restaurant for you, putting their phone away in your presence and only be allowed to use it with your permission, or simply asking them to listen attentively to everything you say, as if they were hypnotized by your voice. In my case, great entertainment comes from making my submissive do tasks for me even if we are outside or in a public space. And trust me when I say that a submissive is as excited as you (if not more) to satisfy their dominant’s desires no matter the time and the space, as long as it’s within their limits.
Although implementing a D/s dynamic on a daily basis can be challenging, I have noticed great improvements in my life and relationship when the D/s dynamic became a 24/7 lifestyle. I became more confident and empowered, my self esteem was boosted to unprecedented levels and I generally felt happier. I also noticed that my submissive was glowing differently. He seemed more at peace and content with himself. His creativity was reaching new highs and our interactions were so much more exciting and filled with enthusiasm. While a 24/7 D/s dynamic can present various challenges, I’ll focus on talking about the positives here.
I believe that when two people (or more) can clearly define their roles and live by their true nature, there is a new incredible balance that arises between them. One filled with excitement and joy, where everyone thrives. And because a D/s relationship often involves very emotionally and physically intimate dynamics, there is a higher level of communication and trust that is built with each other. This is both natural and necessary as it allows everyone involved in the dynamic to feel safe and heard, encouraging a healthy lifestyle. It then becomes easier to consider bringing this kind of dynamic into your daily life, because if done right, it feels as easy as breathing air. And let me tell you, this air is just so fresh and lush you’ll keep craving for more!
