Orgasm control and its benefits

My fun in bed has more than doubled ever since I’ve introduced chastity to my submissive. Not only he gets very aroused, with little space for his dick to get hard, but it has also increased how turned on we feel once we’re both having sex.

I like to combine orgasm control with edging. I think it’s that little spicy flake that adds spiciness to the sexual scene once he’s allowed out of the cage. In fact, now he can’t just celebrate freedom when he gets uncaged, he knows that a long and tortous process will come before he can actually get full pleasure and climax. That’s when edging comes in. I usually like to tease his dick as soon as it’s out of the cage to give him the illusion that now that the cold stainless steel is not confining his dick, he’ll get to experience pleasure free of thought. Edging is the practice of giving pleasure to someone up to the point where they’re about to reach an orgasm and stop right before, leaving you on that “edge” that feels like a sheer (somewhat unfair) mix of pleasure and pain. My submissive would call it frustration at its finest. And it is, especially after he’s been caged for days or weeks.

Orgasm control can have several benefits on your sub as it makes him less focused on personal sexual satisfaction and more focused on you reaching an orgasm first and foremost. It also makes him enjoy orgasms even more as they have an increased intensity of pleasure. And lastly, I believe it’s great fun. It makes the play last longer and sex can become a really prolonged fun and entertaining activity instead of a (mostly) short intercourse where men usually get off well before the woman has build half her way towards an orgasm.